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【花瓶丈夫】打破尊卑枷鎖 最重要投緣 (Vase husband) ......!

10/4/2015

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[東網] 你是「花瓶丈夫」嗎?美國影星佐治古尼迎娶在著名大學畢業的人權律師為妻子,掀起外界談論「花瓶丈夫」的現象。事實上,本港亦愈來愈多女性,無論在收入及學歷上,也較丈夫優勝。有80後準新人,相識時女方收入高出男方1倍,雖然不被父母「睇好」,但男方甘願做個有承擔的「花瓶丈夫」,幾經努力下排除萬難,快將展開人生新1頁。
亦有年薪過千萬元的女銀行家願意與月入萬多元的男士交往,認為投緣才是重點。有婚介公司指,近5年妻子賺錢較丈夫多的個案約佔3成,並預期趨勢將會持續;學者則稱「花瓶丈夫」屬正面現象,有助打破性別定型,提升女性地位。

「(1年前)最初我同佢(Winnie)講人工得萬幾蚊,而佢已經過3萬,自己覺得好有壓力。」已訂婚的80後準新人William及Winnie,是其中1個女方賺錢較男方多的例子。任職會計師,正供讀碩士的William坦言,最初亦因收入差距問題而心中有刺,幸好Winnie沒有嫌棄,並欣賞他坦白誠實,「相處唔係吓吓講錢,反而佢搵得少過我,會有1個空間畀佢努力上進。」目前任職分析師的Winnie已經月入近4萬元。

William對於自己成為「花瓶丈夫」沒有不快,「如果個男人搵10萬蚊1個月,但1蚊都唔肯畀老婆,搵得多又有乜用?」在William努力工作下,現在他的月薪只少於Winnie6、7千元,而他亦承諾將會撥出6成收入作為家用。William表示,由於父母傳統觀念較重,最初對他有位「搵錢多過佢嘅老婆」甚為抗拒,幸經過相處後慢慢接受。

此外,年薪達1千5百萬元的女銀行家Josephine,亦透露不介意男士收入多少。她曾約會月入僅萬多元的男士,現時亦與1名月入3萬多元,從事資訊科技行業的男士發展,坦言「講心不講金」,只要與男方投緣,就會有發展機會。

根據本港統計處資料顯示,本港女性結婚年齡中位數已由1991年的26.2歲增加至2014年的29歲,反映女性愈來愈遲婚;而在2011年,30至34歲具專上教育程度未結婚的女性亦佔4成7,較內地、日本及新加坡高;反觀小學程度以下的未婚率只有1成3。

「5年前可能10對couples(伴侶)中得1對係咁(女收入高於男),依家有3對!」婚介公司eSynchrony創辦人林笑沅指,近年女性覓對象不一定要對方收入多過自己,反而認為「最緊要夾同傾得埋」,亦拋開傳統男尊女卑的枷鎖,接納學歷比自己低的伴侶。

她稱,該公司在香港,新加坡、馬來西亞及印尼都設有婚介中心,發現本港女士的思維最開放,擇偶時不介意收入,較注重雙方性格配合。紅線婚姻顧問負責人李威廉坦言,女士教育程度愈來愈高,「好多因為冇得揀而接受現實」。他指該公司約有兩成屬女方賺錢較多的個案,並預期此趨勢會持續。

對於「花瓶丈夫」現象,有調查亦發現,近9成美國男士願與高學歷及高收入女性約會,將傳統男尊女卑的觀念扭轉。香港理工大學香港專上學院社會科學系講師曾偉洪指,「花瓶丈夫」是正面例子,夫妻不拘泥於男尊女卑,男性要養妻活兒的觀念,可以有效地打破性別定型。曾表示,現時社會亦有丈夫失業或退休後,改由妻子養家,一些家庭會因未能適應角色轉變而影響雙方關係,因此心理輔導及教育可有效推廣男女角色的彈性。













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